Friday, January 29, 2021
S1:Ep16 Cicely Tyson Passes, Lebron James Stalker, Safaree bashes wife, Flirting Tactics (Topic) and more...
Thursday, January 28, 2021
S1:Ep15 TI Forced Threesomes, Khloé Kardashian's engagement, K Michelle Update, Relationship Breakup (Topic) and more...
Tuesday, January 26, 2021
S1:Ep14 Floyd Mayweather Roast, Tyrese Crying again, Spike Lee Speaks Out, Dating App's (Topic) and more...
Monday, January 25, 2021
S1:Ep13 Jay-z Signs with Trump, Master P's Clubhouse Rant, Trey Songz Assault, In Love with a Thot Part 2 (Topic) and more...
Friday, January 22, 2021
S1:Ep12 Lil Kim Biopic, Dave Chappelle's Health Status, In Love with a Thot (Topic) and more...
Thursday, January 21, 2021
S1:Ep11 Rihanna's Wild Covid Party, Luenell Puts Dr. Dre on Blast, Tory Lanez update and more...
Monday, January 11, 2021
ARE YOU SUFFERING FROM COMMITMENT PHOBIA?
Do you get nervous when the person your dating starts saying things like, "I Miss You" "I Cant Stop Thinking About You" or " Lets be Exclusive” ? Do you find yourself always running for the heels every time someone says the words, "I Love You” ? If this sounds like you, or someone you know You Or that other person may be suffering from....
Commitment Phobia is very common. In fact most people have it and don’t even realize it because it’s embedded in their subconscious.Let’s face it, everyone is scared of being hurt by love and that’s ok because fear is a part of life, but if this fear is stopping you from experiencing the great things that love has to offer than you may want to do a bit of self reflection. Fear is an emotion that usually comes from past experiences.
If you have witnessed a string of negative relationships from your family or friends for example you could unconsciously be running from love because you don’t want to endure the same heart breaking end results. You could also build Commitment Phobia from opening up to someone in the past, and becoming deeply wounded or betrayed because of it, but just because you are afraid of something doesn’t mean you can’t overcome it.
Love has many more positives than negatives. Think back to the beginning of your relationships, and not the end. Remember when you couldn’t wait to see that person after a long day of work... Just the thought of their face or the sound of their voice would make you feel so overwhelmed with joy and happiness. That is the image you should hold in your mind when you think of the word LOVE, because love is about joy and happiness not pain and heartbreak.
As in all situations you have to take the good with the bad, and you should always evaluate your past relationships so you can learn from them and grow, but you should never dwell on the past or become so obsessed with it, that it holds you back from your future! Commitment Phobia may be a part of life, but it does NOT have to be a Permanent Life Threatening disease without a Cure.Real Love Can Heal a Broken Heart! So think happy thoughts, and you will find the one who makes you feel happiness for eternity!
(MizzBlaze) -MixUpShow
Friday, January 1, 2021
GROUPIE LUV
You have admired a Music Artist or Ball Player from afar... You keep up with their latest actions, and you respect his/her talents. You feel some kind of affection towards this person all though you have never met them face to face. The thought of them makes you smile, and feel all giddy inside when you see them come across your TV screen... These feelings are similar to Love, but how can you be in Love with someone who doesn’t even know you exist?? Could this be the beginning of a ... Groupie Luv!
In reality there is nothing wrong with having admiration for someone. It’s easy to look up to a public figure and feel some sort of attraction to them. Whether it’s because of their talents and gifts or because of the way they claim power and attention. After all who wants someone who is just sitting around not making moves? The people that are the most appealing often times are the ones who are action takers, and leaders. You look up to them because they have stepped up to the plate, and done things that other people have only dreamed to do. So why wouldn’t you feel some kind of attraction for them?
The Term Groupie is defined as---- "An ardent fan of a celebrity, someone who follows a group/artist around on tours. An admirer of a celebrity who attends as many of his or her public appearances as possible."
So how does this admiration turn into a Sexual Attraction? You start off as a fan “A devotee or enthusiast", and then the next thing you know you are being referred to as a Groupie which is a "Fan" to the tenth power. The feelings you develop go from being basic to sexual, and you start fantasizing about this unknown person in a romantic sense. Whenever you see them in an interview, or video you start to imagine how it would be to have them in your life for real, and you become intrigued to know about all the moves they make. Some people may say these feelings are crazy, and down right obsessive, but are they really? What’s wrong with wanting to know about someone you’re attracted to? I feel your admiration only becomes dangerous when you take an aggressive action toward your crush, and you do and say things that are out of your character in order to gain their affection or temporary love.
Having a "Groupie Luv" is perfectly safe in my opinion as long as you do not put yourself in harms way or degrade yourself or your body in order to get a temporary fix. Contrary to popular belief, I don’t believe all groupie luv involves an exchange of sexual favors. I feel you can look up to someone, follow their progress, be attracted to them and go on to build a plutonic relationship with them. After all aren’t Entertainers and Athletes normal people too? They Love, Cry, and get their Hearts Broken just like everyone else. So why do you have to be called names just because you admire someone, or because you fantasize about a person in a sexual way. Isn’t this a normal feeling? Why wouldn’t you have sexual thoughts for someone you find attractive? Whether they are in the lime light or not!
There are all types of Luvs, and I personally feel that nothing is wrong with "Groupie Luv" as long as that love doesn’t turn into a Dangerous Fatal Attraction. No matter what kind of situation you’re in, you have to keep your safety, and self respect as your first priority. If you’re of age, and you can wake up in the morning and be proud of what you did the night before then who’s to judge? You have to be happy and fulfilled with yourself, and be able to live with your actions, and choices in life. I feel "Love" is a beautiful thing, but you need to always have love and respect for yourself before you can have Love for anyone else. Keep in mind that Artist and Athletes again are just people. They are not Gods or Untouchable Creatures.
I feel it’s important to understand that most people who are currently in the lime light once had a “Groupie Luv” too! They have looked up to artist/entertainers on TV, and have been attracted to them, followed their progress, and had sexual thoughts about them. It’s completely normal, and innocent in nature to have a “Groupie Luv”, at least until you take aggressive action, and then it becomes something more.
-MixUpShow
I feel it’s important to understand that most people who are currently in the lime light once had a “Groupie Luv” too! They have looked up to artist/entertainers on TV, and have been attracted to them, followed their progress, and had sexual thoughts about them. It’s completely normal, and innocent in nature to have a “Groupie Luv”, at least until you take aggressive action, and then it becomes something more.
-MixUpShow
INTERVIEW With MONTANO ST.JULES
Artist Montano St. Jules has been in the game for several years. The Canadian Photographer's roots stem from the beautiful island of Trinidad & Tobago, "I don't take pictures I create ART." Montano who also goes by the tag name, "TheArtof1" gives us a glimpse of his life behind the lens. Check out the interview below...
-PERSONAL-
Q. If you could live anywhere in the world where would you be and why?
A: I believe as an artist I would have the greatest appreciation for the work that I do in Europe. Paris ,Italy, Germany etc all have a long history of love and support for the arts.
-CAREER-
Q. Why did you become a photographer?
A: I started as a fine artist with drawing and painting as my main forms of visual expression. I chose photography mainly as a compromise based on the predominant use of this visual medium in the commercial world of business. Looking around and trying to find a practical use for my natural creative skills it became obvious that mostly all businesses depended on images to a considerable degree. Drawings such as graphic illustrations are also used but to a much lesser degree and paintings are used still to a lesser degree. The great thing about having all my background in the fine arts is that the same principles can be used for creating art using the camera. Capturing what is there is what the camera does, capturing what is felt is what I do.
A: I started as a fine artist with drawing and painting as my main forms of visual expression. I chose photography mainly as a compromise based on the predominant use of this visual medium in the commercial world of business. Looking around and trying to find a practical use for my natural creative skills it became obvious that mostly all businesses depended on images to a considerable degree. Drawings such as graphic illustrations are also used but to a much lesser degree and paintings are used still to a lesser degree. The great thing about having all my background in the fine arts is that the same principles can be used for creating art using the camera. Capturing what is there is what the camera does, capturing what is felt is what I do.
Q. Have you ever had a creative block? If so how would you advise other artist to get through this situation ?
A: Creative blocks are rare for me as my creative process largely depends on words. Words for me stimulate visuals. My process will usually start with the name of the piece that I choose to tackle. For example lets say I chose the word PAIN. This word will now be meditated upon and will stimulate visuals which relate to and are associated with it. Facial expressions, wounds, tears... are all visual cues that are in direct correlation to the word pain. This is my process.
A: Creative blocks are rare for me as my creative process largely depends on words. Words for me stimulate visuals. My process will usually start with the name of the piece that I choose to tackle. For example lets say I chose the word PAIN. This word will now be meditated upon and will stimulate visuals which relate to and are associated with it. Facial expressions, wounds, tears... are all visual cues that are in direct correlation to the word pain. This is my process.
Q. Have you ever wanted to pursue another career other than photography, If so what would you do and why?
A: I am a natural speaker and teacher so if I wasn't such a active artist I would teach. I am also very health conscious so practicing natural medicine would have also been a good choice for me. I love helping people in every way.
A: I am a natural speaker and teacher so if I wasn't such a active artist I would teach. I am also very health conscious so practicing natural medicine would have also been a good choice for me. I love helping people in every way.
-LOVE-
Q. Describer your most difficult breakup. How did you get through it?
A: Getting through any difficult breakup is a process and a matter of time. There is no magic formula and everyone deals with their pain differently. As an artist repurposeing that pain creatively can and did lead to great work.
Nuff said! LOL!
-Contact Info-
A: Getting through any difficult breakup is a process and a matter of time. There is no magic formula and everyone deals with their pain differently. As an artist repurposeing that pain creatively can and did lead to great work.
Nuff said! LOL!
-Contact Info-
Location: Toronto, Canada
Website: instagram.com/theartof1
Social Media: Twitter/Instagram @TheArtof1
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